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The Last 9 Yards.

The next 9 months will fly by faster than I will expect. 9 more months until I finally finish my undergraduate degree, took a little longer than I expected and wanted it too. But everything takes it own course, and things all happen for a reason.

Lately, I feel as everything has feel into place. I finally feel so confident with all my future plans with Optometry school, getting an MBA and work. Not only that but with those around me such as family, friends and Henry. I realized those who want to be there for you will show it and those who could care less just fade into the mist. I really appreciate those who are still around and value the friendship as much as I do. For Vietnamese New Years this year, we had a big Le family dinner. It was awesome to see my cousins, aunts and uncles. Especially all the babies I have yet to see. It was great to see we can still get together as a family, even though its only once a year.

I can't wait for what this year has in store for me. <3

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I know as we all get older, somethings just get harder. I think its a bit sad when the only time you can round up all your good friends together is either for a birthday or party. Its hard to keep in touch with people as we get older. But those who make that effort are the ones worth keeping around. Everything works both way. I am glad I have a good set of buddies where we can pick up exactly where we left off. Even though if we haven't talked in months or years.

Birthday is tomorrow, 22. I can't believe it, still shocking to me.

We all grow up

Its nice to have a group of friends you can always rely on. But as time and life goes on, somethings change and its inevitable. Life moves on, it doesn't wait for no one. We all need to appreciate time is valuable and as we grow older we have less time to accomplish what we really want. For example, there are many who don't understand nor see that getting a College Degree is important. Having a better education will always give help you down the road. With this recession that is occuring with our econonmy, it makes it much harder for those who want to go back to school or even stay in school. In the end life is never easy and there will always be challanges for everyone.

Sometimes we all need to stop to breathe and enjoy the present. Over the past couple years I have lost and gained a handful of friends. When I think about it those who are still around are the ones that matter. Each person has their own life going on and it makes it harder to see friends and what not, but really we all need some time to relax and enjoy good company right? Only if life was that easy sometimes, makes me miss earlier years of college.

Appreciation

The feeling of being unappreciated from friends is never great. Friends should be there for their friends, there should never be a feeling of " i owe you one". Friends should be there for their friends regardless. We all show our appreciation by doing the same back. Its frustrating when people only come to you when they need something. Yeah its nice to lend a helping hand but its nice to get it back once in a while. Even thought its not about receiving but what you give to others. Sometimes people get cheated out of a friendship. In the end its because some of us are so nice and care a little bit too much that we enable them to do this. But what kind of friends are they if they do this to you? Its one thing for a friend to give soo much to another friend and never take the time to say "thanks" or "i really appreciate it" and another if its a balanced friendship.

"Friends shouldn't owe a friend for being their for them but do it because your their friend and care about them"

Friendship?

Its amazing how some people love to hear their own voice. Not many realize how selfish they are until another points it out. It's true that some of us are selfish at times but for others its constant. A friend is someone who one is able to talk to, go to for advice and lean on. A friendship should never be just one way like a basketball game, the ball is evenly on both sides of the court. Its sucks for those who realize what great friends they have after there gone.

I know that my friends are always there for me, I am thank for the ones who appreciate me. Comes to show who your real friends are. To me boys are dime a dozen but to other girls they aren't. Chicks before dicks. But there are some who are opposite and some who are just ridiculous. But hey we're all different but whatever floats your boat. There needs to be a fine line when enough is enough though. Its amazing how some girls love to stay with their asshole boyfriends, after they have cheated and been promiscuous. Also, to talk about because your proud of it is another thing. It only shows how dumb and the lack of respect you have for yourself.

On a lighter note, I can't wait for school to be over and the summer to start! This weekend was pretty good, besides the fact I had a final to study for but I got to see both my besties, wonderful boyfriend & my family.

May 24th needs to come faster!!! =]

Optimism

At times we have a mindset where we think we are invincible and that nothing can ever hurt us. But little do we realize that anything can happen. People need to open their eyes and live more freely. Sometimes we all just have to have a little more optimism and believe. Being negative never gets anyone anywhere. We all need to realize that we are only human.